If you've been looking for a clinical consultation group, you've probably wondered about something nobody puts on their sales page: what actually happens in the room?
That's a fair question, especially if you've sat through a group that went sideways. So here's the short answer, and then the long one.
- The short answer:
I'm Jeanene Wolfe, LCSW, and I personally facilitate every CollabOasis consultation session. Groups are small (6 to 8 licensed therapists) and closed. I curate each one after an individual Discovery Chat, with a deliberate mix of experience levels and treatment modalities. When a therapist brings a case, every member speaks openly. That means the clinician receiving consultation hears a variety of viewpoints and leaves with treatment suggestions they can tailor to their own needs and their client's. Benevolence and respect are built in during onboarding from the very first session, which is what makes that kind of open input feel safe.
- Who facilitates CollabOasis groups?
I do. I'm in every session, start to finish. You know who will be in the room before you share a thing.
- What is my facilitation experience?
I've been a social worker for more than 30 years and an LCSW since 2009. I opened my solo private practice in 2013, and I still keep it today. I started CollabOasis in 2020, and since then I've led hundreds of clinical consultation sessions with licensed clinicians. Some of the original members from 2020 are still in groups with me.
I also host the podcast Colleague Down the Hall and wrote for the SimplePractice blog on why therapist consultation groups matter. I've talked about facilitated peer consultation on Abundance Practice Building, All Things Private Practice, and A SimpleTherapy Podcast. I've also presented at the NASW Virginia/DC Metro convention and at TheraSummit Specialisms, where my session was on starting your own consultation group.
Here's what all of that has taught me. Facilitation isn't about being the smartest person in the room. It's about making the room safe enough that the smartest thinking can happen.
- What does a facilitated session actually look like?
Before the group meets: Every member has a 20-minute Discovery Chat with me. I ask about your practice, your caseload, the populations you serve, and what you hope consultation gives you. Then I build the group on purpose. Groups aren't first-come, first-served. I'm deliberate about mixing experience levels and modalities, and every member is licensed and values-aligned before anyone shares a thing.
The first session: The CollabOasis Intensive first session runs 90 minutes, because beginnings deserve room. We set our group agreement together, covering confidentiality, respect, and how we show up for each other. The culture we build is one of safety, benevolence, and respect, and we name it out loud from day one.
Every session after: Each session after that is a focused 55 minutes on a HIPAA-compliant platform, with cases discussed in de-identified terms. Members bring whatever their practice needs that week, whether that's a stuck case, an ethical gray area, a business question, or the imposter syndrome that showed up Tuesday and won't leave.
While we talk: I'm tracking more than the case. I notice who hasn't spoken yet. (Some members keep their mic muted, and when I see someone unmute, I know to invite them in.) I notice when one voice is filling the space, and I gently open it back up. I notice when someone shares something vulnerable, and I make sure it lands somewhere soft. One member described it as a group where “everyone in the group was heard and actively participated.” That doesn't happen by accident. It happens by design.
- Why are differing perspectives the biggest benefit of a CollabOasis group?
Because one perspective, no matter how good, is still just one perspective.
When you consult with a single trusted colleague, you often get confirmation instead of consultation. You see the case through the same lens you already had, just with a second set of eyes looking the same direction.
In a CollabOasis group, every member speaks openly about the case you bring. A clinician trained in EMDR sees something different than one trained in family systems. Someone who works mostly with adolescents notices something the couples therapist wouldn't. A newer clinician asks the fundamental question a 20-year veteran stopped asking, and a seasoned clinician spots the pattern in two sentences.
So you don't walk away with one answer. You walk away with a range of viewpoints and clinical treatment suggestions, and you choose what fits your training, your style, and your client. The consultation is tailored to you because you're the one doing the tailoring.
Here's what that looks like in real life:
- Lisa Sells, LPC, brought a new client she was certain she needed to refer out. “Each of them shared a different perspective and I found that my original fear dissipated.” She kept the client, who now reports the relationship has been very beneficial to them.
- Dr. Morgan Levy brought a substance use case outside her area of expertise and received “practical help as well as the emotional support to move forward.”
- Elena Glass, LPC, put it this way: having “a group with various opinions brings different perspectives that I wouldn't get from my supervision with just one professional.”
That's the whole point. Different clinical minds, one shared goal: helping you help your client.
- How do we keep open input respectful?
We set it up that way from day one.
In onboarding, during our first 90-minute session, we talk specifically about how we treat each other in this group: with benevolence and respect. Everyone hears it, everyone agrees to it, and it becomes the culture of the room. That's why speaking openly in CollabOasis never turns into a debate or a pile-on. People offer what they see, generously, and the clinician who brought the case keeps the decision.
Disagreements simply aren't part of how our groups work. And because I'm in every session, if one ever did come up, I'd handle it right then, in the moment.
- What happens if a group isn't working for me?
Then I want to know. If something feels off, I'll work with you directly to make sure you're getting the consultation you need. During the Intensive, if we can't find a solution and you've attended at least 2 sessions, you can request a refund for the remaining sessions. I want you in a room that works for you.
- Why does facilitation matter so much?
Because most of us didn't stop seeking consultation because we stopped needing it. We stopped because of a bad experience with an unfacilitated group, a Facebook thread that was too public for a real question, or a free group where the members rotated so often that trust never had a chance to form.
Those aren't failed versions of consultation. They're a different thing entirely. Structure, facilitation, curation, confidentiality, and consistency are what make it safe to bring the case that keeps you up at night.
Want to see for yourself?
New groups start together through the CollabOasis Intensive, which is 6 facilitated sessions over 2 to 3 months, with a pressure-free decision point at the end. If you'd like to talk about whether a group is a fit for you, you're warmly invited to book a Discovery Chat at collaboasis.com/discover.
Our work is hard. It doesn't have to be lonely.